What are your middle names?
Allison and Glynn
How long have you been together?
We met and started dating in the fall of 1998, so about 10 ½ years. The first time I met him I thought he was an asshole (to be fair he was very drunk). We got married in July of 2000.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
About 2 weeks after the meeting noted above, our paths crossed again and that’s all she wrote. We’ve been together ever since.
Who asked whom out?
I was in college and he worked with a friend so we did a lot of “hanging out” with our mutual friends before we had a proper date. But I was the one to kiss him first.
How old are each of you?
I am 31 and Mark is OLD almost 37.
Whose siblings do you see the most?
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
I think parenthood is both the hardest and the most gratifying at the same time. It’s just so, so hard to carve out time for us and our interests as a couple that don’t revolve around a toddler. That and finances…that’s a close second.
Are you from the same home town?
Amazingly, yes although we didn’t meet until we both moved away. We are both from Mansfield but went to different school systems (and with the age difference, it’s not surprising we never met while we lived there). I moved to Lima the summer before my freshman year in high school and by that time Mark was in the Army then on to live in Toledo. But its fun to compare memories from our old childhood haunts.
Who is smarter?
My automatic answer is that I am because I am a fount of useless knowledge (and since Google was invented I can be a royal pain in the ass when it comes to trivial things). But, I think we are actually pretty evenly matched and with our different interests and affinities we each teach each other a lot.
Who is the most sensitive?
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
This is really hard because we are still exploring all the fantastic places to eat in Cleveland so we don’t often make return trips to a single place. But I’d have to say we’ve been to Bar Cento the most in the last year.
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Salt Spring Island, BC where we went when I graduated college, returned the following year to get married and then visited again on our 5th anniversary. It’s almost time for another visit.
Who has the craziest exes?
Mark, but there hasn’t been any ex-drama since right after we started dating.
Who has the worst temper?
We both are pretty bad, but while I am quick to flare and then pretty quick to cool-off Mark will get angry and smolder for a long time.
Who does the cooking?
We are pretty equal on the cooking front although our repertoire is pretty limited to heat-up-and-eat meals from Trader Joe’s and a choice few simple recipes. However, I am the Sunday Morning Pancake Queen.
Who is the neat-freak?
We are both pretty much anti-neat-freak which can be a bad thing. We do an okay job at keeping the general filth to a livable level but neither one of us particularly cares. Once in a while one of us will go on a de-clutter and scrub phase, but it’s pretty rare.
Who is more stubborn?
Me. I am always right so you just better live with it. And it’s really hard for me to agree to disagree because if you don’t agree with me you are WRONG and I will continue to try to convince you of my superiority. Yeah, I’m fun at parties.
That said, Mark is pretty darn stubborn, too. And our child?- just watch out world.
Who hogs the bed?
Mark, but mostly because he likes to cuddle while I am of the notion of you get 10 minutes to cuddle then get the heck away from me. I can’t sleep unless I have my space. Remember the scene in Dirty Dancing “This is my dance space. This is your dance space. I don’t go into yours, you don’t go into mine.”? That’s me in a bed.
Who wakes up earlier?
Mark. I would sleep until 10 every damn day if allowed.
Where was your first date?
The sad thing is neither one of us can remember what we did for our first date. We think maybe we went to $1 draft/$0.10 wings night at Fricker’s. What we do remember is that I fell flat on my fact upon walking out the door.
Who is more jealous?
Depends on the situation, but we’ve both had our share of jealousy.
How long did it take to get serious?
About 2 seconds. Pretty much after our second meeting we were together all the time. We moved in together a year later (after me practically living at his place for a year) and got married a year after that.
Who eats more?
I think we are pretty equal on this front.
Who does the laundry?
Me. Mark does it once in awhile but I have RULES about the laundry that need to be followed (see stubborn question above) and get annoyed when they are not.
Who’s better with the computer?
Have you met Mark? It’s him, definitely
Who drives when you are together?
Pretty much always Mark. Although he won’t admit it out loud he isn’t a big fan of my driving. Plus, I like to sleep in the car so if we are on the road for more then and hour I prefer for him to drive.
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*”All that I have, All that I am” were part of our wedding vows and I started giggling when Mark said them because we were so broke at the time. Mark was crying a bit during the ceremony so me laughing made me look like a total ass…something he will never let me forget.